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女儿六岁相册
- 卢昌海 -
据说初生的婴儿都不好看： 没有眉毛， 皮肤皱皱巴巴， 而且没有头发。 不过现在回想起来，
当护士把女儿抱到我面前时， 我似乎没有对那些特征留下太多印象。 给我留下印象的倒是旁边另一位护士所说的话，
她说： “由于外界比母体的环境亮得多， 因此初生婴儿的眼睛是闭着的， 不过——” 她接着说：
“如果将灯光挡住， 让婴儿以为重新回到了母体环境里， 她就会睁开眼睛。” 说着， 她用一本笔记本挡住了灯光。
我盯着那小脑袋看， 可不， 仅仅过了几秒钟， 小丫头就上当了， 悄悄睁开眼睛，
怯生生地看着这个她将在其中生活的陌生世界。
虽然这一幕在她的记忆里是无法留存的， 但在我的记忆里却清晰无比。 在那双怯生生的眼睛看着我的那一刻，
我知道这个小家伙将从此成为我呵护和陪伴的对象。 这一点在以前似乎只是理智的领悟， 在那一刻却转变成了情感。
我是一个不迷信的人， 不过有句迷信的话我却很喜欢， 那是妻子告诉我的， 她说： “女儿是父亲前世的情人”。
每当我去幼儿园接小丫头， 她一边大叫 “爸爸！” 一边蹒跚地朝我跑来， 张开双臂扑到我怀里的时候， 我总是想起这句话。
一转眼六年多过去了， 女儿已经从那个 “没有眉毛， 皮肤皱皱巴巴， 而且没有头发”
的小不点儿长成了整天蹦蹦跳跳的小女孩。 而我忽然想起， 在我的网站上竟然没有什么关于她的东西。
就先贴几张相片作为弥补吧。:-)
出生当天
七个月 (我曾给这张相片取名为 “垂涎一尺”)
八个月
十六个月
两岁
两岁
三岁
四岁
五岁
五岁
六岁
六岁
二零一零年四月五日整理
二零一零年四月六日发表于本站
http://www.changhai.org/
2011 年底在网上偶然看到这首关于父亲与女儿的美国乡村歌曲， 将歌词附在下面， 作为本文的附录，
并将其 midi 版设为了本文的背景音乐。
There's two things I know for sure
She was sent here from heaven and she's Daddy's little girl
As I drop to my knees by her bed at night
She talks to Jesus and I close my eyes
And I thank God for all of the joy in my life
Oh, but most of all for..
Butterfly kisses after bedtime prayer
Stickin' little white flowers all up in her hair
"Walk beside the pony Daddy, it's my first ride
I know the cake looks funny Daddy but I sure tried"
Oh, with all that I've done wrong, I must have done something right
To deserve a hug every morning and butterfly kisses at night
Sweet sixteen today
And she's lookin' like her mamma a little more every day
One part woman, the other part girl
To perfume and make-up, from ribbons and curls
Trying her wings out in a great big world
But I remember...
Butterfly kisses after bedtime prayer
Stickin' little white flowers all up in her hair
You know how much I love you Daddy
But if you don't mind I'm only gonna kiss you on the cheek this time
Oh, with all that I've done wrong, I must have done something right
To deserve her love every morning and butterfly kisses at night
Oh the precious times
Oh, like the wind the years go by
Precious butterfly
Spread your wings and fly
She'll change her name today
and she'll make a promise and I'll give her away
Standing in the bride room just staring at her
She asked me what I'm thinking and I said "I'm not sure,
I just feel like I'm losing my baby girl"
And she leaned over...and gave me...
Butterfly kisses with her mamma there
Stickin' little white flowers all up in her hair
"Walk me down the aisle Daddy, it's just about time
Does my wedding gown look pretty Daddy? Daddy don't cry"
Oh, with all that I've done wrong, I must have done something right
To deserve her love every morning and butterfly kisses
I couldn't ask God for more
Man, this is what love is
I know I've gotta let her go, but I'll always remember
Every hug in the morning and butterfly kisses
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